All FAQS
Are you a FinDom?
No. That’s the one thing I don’t offer, as it doesn’t interest me. My practice centres on the exchange of D/s experiences, designed to guide my submissives into a genuine subspace—one that helps ease the everyday anxieties of being human.
Will you judge me if I ask for something you don’t have listed as a specialty?
Absolutely not. Kindness goes both ways. Polite enquiries are always welcome, and I approach them with an open mind and without judgment. Your fantasies and discretion are fully respected, even at first contact. You’re welcome to make requests; however, I do not cater to all interests. If I feel another Domme in my network would be better suited to your desires, I may recommend them instead. If you’re curious—just ask.
Why do Dominatrices charge high rates, and do you offer discounts?
My rates reflect the extensive preparation, research, and ongoing study of kink that takes place behind the scenes, including dungeon hire, outfits and costumes, meticulous session planning, and the time I reserve for open slots when I am not working. Equally important is the emotional labour involved—being a Domme means holding and guiding someone’s headspace with focus, responsibility, and care. For these reasons, I am unable to offer discounts. Thank you for your understanding.
Can you stay the night with me?
No. However, I do offer extended bookings or alternative arrangements, which can be discussed during your consultation.
Are you naked during your sessions, and can I request a specific outfit?
No—but I will always be fully dressed in sultry lingerie, leather, or latex, depending on what best suits the session and allows me to feel empowered. If you have a specific outfit in mind, we can discuss it, and it may be purchased from my gift list—so you’ll be the first to see me wearing it just for you.
For foot and shoe fetishists: If you desire a particular style of shoe or boot, we can discuss it during your consultation. If I don’t already own the footwear you’re hoping for, I may accept gifts from my wish list that match your desired aesthetic and choose to wear them during your session. Please note that I do not cater to all looks—my clothing and footwear are curated primarily for my own styling aesthetic. I’m happy to explore possibilities further during consultation.
Do you travel outside of London and internationally?
Yes. I love travelling and am available throughout the UK and internationally. By special request and for an additional fee, I’m happy to accompany my favourite submissives on dates, dinners, domination holidays, or FMTY experiences once trust and connection have been established (including previous trips to Sicily, Oslo, Copenhagen, Stockholm, and New York), as well as to events and activities we both enjoy.
Can I climax during a session?
Yes, only if I beg hard enough. ;)
Do you session with couples?
Yes. Please let me know you are booking as a couple when enquiring.
Are our sessions confidential?
Yes. All communications and in‑session activities are strictly confidential, unless disclosure is legally required. Your discretion and privacy are of the utmost importance to me, and I expect the same respect for my privacy in return.
What is a safe word?
A safe word is a word or phrase you can use at any time during a session to let me know you would like to pause play for any reason. I will give you the safeword during our consultation or prior to starting the session. You can use your safe word at any time for any reason, and I will immediately pause the scene and check in with you.
Why do you need to know if I have any medical conditions?
Medical conditions can affect how we play. For example, if you have a bad knee, I’ll be mindful of this and may adjust the positions I place you in. Similarly, if you have a latex allergy, it’s essential I know beforehand—so I can use latex-free gloves instead of sliding a black-gloved finger where it shouldn’t be!
How do I pay you?
Payment may be made via bank transfer, or in cash. All deposits must be paid by bank transfer.
Do I have to pay a deposit?
Yes. Your session is not officially booked or confirmed until the deposit is received. Deposits are non‑refundable (as I begin preparing and tailoring your session, designing your bespoke experience—which involves a significant amount of emotional labour.); however, if you cancel more than 48 hours in advance, your deposit may be applied to a future booking.
What is your payment policy?
A deposit equal to 50% of the total booking fee is required to secure your session. The remaining balance must be paid before the session begins, either prior to or upon arrival.
What is your cancellation policy?
Deposits are non‑refundable, as dungeon hire and preparation have already been committed. If you cancel with more than 48 hours’ notice, your deposit may be transferred to a future session. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice, or failure to attend a session, will result in forfeiture of the deposit.
What is after-care?
After‑care is the physical and emotional support provided during the wind‑down period following a session. Sessions can be intense and may evoke strong physical or emotional responses, often referred to as “subdrop.” I will offer appropriate after‑care to help you re‑ground—this may include gentle touch, such as a light wrist massage after restraints, as well as time to chat and decompress together. Your aftercare will feel like a quiet resurrection.